About us

Welcome to YesNoMaybe: a new kind of matchmaking for grown-ups

We believe the best connections aren't rushed. YesNoMaybe invites the world to find love, in 64 languages, through a private, unhurried matchmaking experience. No endless swiping, no public profiles, and no pressure to perform for the camera.

How it works

1. Tell us about you, and who you're looking for. Our multiple-choice survey lets you describe yourself and the people you hope to meet. Answer only what you want to now, and refine it any time.
2. We do the searching. Our matchmaking finds people who fit what you're looking for, then checks that you fit what they're looking for too, and ranks everyone from most to least compatible.
3. Pick your day. Choose the day of the week that suits your life, and your batch of matches arrives in your account.
4. Decide in your own time. Tag each person Yes, No or Maybe. Nothing expires, you never need to rewind, and you see everyone at once. New results arrive each week, and the old ones stay.

What makes us different

Autopilot, with help if you want it. Set up your search and let it run while you get on with your week. Your results are delivered to your account automatically, never by email. If you'd like support, you can hire a dating expert from our affiliate network, such as a coach, advisor or matchmaker, and share your profile so they can work with you directly.

Personality before pixels. Chemistry runs deeper than a filtered photo. You get answers to the questions that matter before you ever match, and your compatibility is ranked on who people are. Chatting and sharing photos happen only when you both agree. Nothing is public or automatic.

Fiercely private. You get a random username and passphrase, and we never collect phone numbers, emails or linked social accounts. Nobody needs to know you're dating, whether that's coworkers, neighbors, family or strangers. Your identity stays yours to share with your matches.

Curation over chaos. Instead of a bottomless feed, you get a weekly shortlist ranked by compatibility, to review on your own schedule. Can't wait? Results Now delivers matches on demand. For extra credits you can also run multiple searches or even multiple profiles.

Questions with substance. Choose the questions that matter to you, from daily routines to lifestyle to ambitions. Compare answers with anyone, whether they're across town or across the globe.

A zero-pressure zone. No cookies, no ad tracking and no public member directory. We have no way to personally identify you, so your personal data stays safe. Period.

Every photo screened. Photos are optional, and you decide when to share them, with a match only and never in public. Every photo is checked by our matchmaker desk before it can be shared. It must show one person, with their face visible and dressed, and nothing vulgar or sexual is allowed.

Who you'll meet here

YesNoMaybe is strictly for adults, 21 to 80 and beyond, who would rather have a list of compatible matches than guess at random profiles. You can also make verification part of your search. Whether you're dating for the very first time, starting a new chapter, or opening your heart to someone in another time zone, you're exactly where you need to be.